Mga Pilipina – Bakit laganap ang pakikipagkilala at pagpapakasal sa mga kalalakihan mula sa Kanluran?

Sa bawat taon, libo-libong mga binata mula sa Kanluran ang bumibisita sa Pilipinas para makipagkilala o magpakasal sa mga Pilipinang nakilala mula sa mga online dating sites o ‘di kaya naman ay ipinakilala sa kanila ng mga kapamilya o kaibigan. Ang kwento ng mga binatang pumupunta sa PIlipinas para magpakasal ay mahabang istorya. Mayroong kwento ng tagumpay at kaligayahan ngunit mayroon ding kabiguan at kahirapan. Hayaan niyo akong maglista ng ilang mga detalye na maari nating pagnilayan, kung maganda man o hindi ang desisyon na magpakasal sa isang Pilipina at itaguyod at isama siya sa ibang bansa. Gusto ko ring sabihin kung ano mga uri ng babae ang dapat mong piliin kung gusto mong isama at itaguyod patungong Kanluran.

Filipinas in Manila street of Philippines

Filipinas in Manila street of Philippines

Napakapalad mo para maging isang binatang nakatira sa Kanluran. Hindi mahalaga kung sa Kanluran ka ba talaga ipinanganak o isa kang naturalized na mamamayan, ikaw ang pangarap ng libo-libong mga Pilipina na nakatira sa Pilipinas. Marami sa kanila ang nangangarap na magpakasal sa isang banyaga upang makapag-abroad, magtrabaho at kumita ng pera.

Ang mga Pilipina ay kilala sa mga kalalakihan mula sa Kanluran dahil sila ay magaganda at kaibig-ibig. Ang kanilang ugali ay namumukod-tangi. Kung ikaw ay makakita ng isang puting lalaki at isang Pilipina, anong naiisip mo? Mapapaisip ka kung paano ang isang Pilipina ay ganoong kaakit-akit sa paningin ng mga lalaki mula sa Kanluran?

Ang mga Pilipina ay may bukod-tanging katauhan na wala ang mga kababaihang mula sa Kanluran. Isa sa mga ugaling ito ay kung papaano nila itrato ang kanilang mga asawa.

  • Sila ang nagluluto ng pagkain araw-araw
  • Sila ang gumagawa ng gawaing-bahay
  • Sila ang nag-aalaga sa mga bata.
  • Ginagawa nila ang lahat ng ito nang masaya.

Ang pinaka-dahilan kung bakit gusto ng mga kalalakihan mula sa Kanluran na magpakasal sa mga Pilipina ay dahil sa kanilang hitsura at personalidad. Makintab at maitim ang kanilang buhok, balingkinitan ang kanilang mga katawan, at nakakaakit ang kanilang mga mata, na bumubighani sa mga kalalakihan. Malaki ang pagpapahalaga nila sa kanilang mga relasyon at kasal. Tapat sila sa kanilang mga asawa. Hindi sila gumagawa ng anumang bagay na makasisira sa kanilang pagsasama sa kasal. Ang isang Pilipina ay nandiyan lamang sa iyong tabi anuman ang mangyari. Tutulungan at susuportahan ka niya. Ang kaniyang mga pagkilos kasama ang kaniyang magandang balingkinitang pigura ay patunay na siya ay isang modelo ng isang kumpletong asawa. Ang mga Pilipina ay magaling sa mga gawaing-bahay. Pinapangalagaan nila nang maayos ang mga tahanan.

Sa kabuuan, narito ang sampung ginintuang katangian ng mga Pilipina.

  • Hinahayaan ka niyang pamunuan ang inyong pamilya. Ikaw ang nagdedesisyon dahil ikaw ang namumuno sa inyong tahanan.
  • Siya ay mapagkumbaba. Makikinig siya sa’yo anuman ang mangyari.
  • Sa iyong pagbangon sa umaga, may naghihintay na mainit na kape sa inyong lamesa. Sasaluhan ka niya, makikipag-usap sa’yo, at hihintayin kang matapos.
  • Ang ilan sa kanila ay ipanghahanada ang iyong damit at tuwalya sa tuwing maliligo ka araw-araw.
  • Siya ay nagluluto ng masasarap na pagkain araw-araw. Matapos ito, huhugasan niya ang mga pinggan.
  • Siya ay magaling humawak ng pera. Siya ay magpapaalam sa tuwing gagastos ng pera sa inyong bahay.
  • Pinananatili niya ang magandang pigura matapos siyang magkaanak.
  • Siya ay hindi lumalabas kasama ang kanyang mga kaibigan nang wala ka.
  • Hindi ka niya pagkakaitan sa kwarto, kahit na wala siyang gana paminsan-minsan.
  • Siya ay ang ‘”bagong kasal’’ sa inyong kwarto araw-araw.

Sa pangkalahatan, mahirap para sa isang lalaki na malaman kung mahal ba talaga siya ng isang babae o gusto lang ba nito ng VISA para makapunta sa Kanlurang bansa. Ang mga Pilipinang nakatira sa Kanluran ay ibang-iba sa mga Pilipinang nakatira sa Pilipinas. Kailangan mong magbigay pansin sa kanyang pananalita upang malaman kung siya ba ay maasahan o hindi.

Filipina lady and American men in the Philippines

Filipina lady and American men in the Philippines

Sa pakikipagkilala o pagpapakasal sa mga Pilipina sa Pilipinas, dapat mong piliin mabuti ‘yung may mabuting pagkatao at magandang pisikal na katangian. Maraming mabubuting kababaihan na nakatira sa Pilipinas. Sa FilipinoDatings.com na aking ginawa, karamihan sa mga kababaihan ang maayos at tapat. Kung gusto mong makipag-ugnayan sa mga “instant noodles” na tipo nang kababaihan, dapat kang mag-ingat. Ang mga maayos at disenteng babae ay hindi tatanggap nang liberal na pamumuhay katulad ng instant noodles na paraan. Pipili sila ng isang mabuting lalaki para pakasalan at kikilalanin ang isa’t-isa. Kapag nabihag mo na ang puso niya, sa’yo na siya sa magpakailanman. Samakatuwid, kapag tinaggap ka ng isang Pilipina bilang kaniyang asawa, ang inyong kasal ay magpakailanman na.

Huwag kang magpapakasal sa isang Pilipina na nasa edad na parang apo mo na siya.

Mayroong mga nakatatandang kalalakihan na nagpakasal sa babaeng mas bata sa kanila ng 30 o 40 na taon. Marami sa kanila ang naghihiwalay din kapag nasa Kanluran na sila. May mga kalalakihan na wala namang pakialam sa ganito. Kapag ang kasal ay nauwi sa hiwalayan, babalik na lamang siya sa Pilipinas upang magpakasal muli sa isang Pilipina.

Hindi mahalaga kung mayaman ka o mahirap, papalibutan ka nang mga kababaihan at ituturing kang isang hari kapag ikaw ay nasa Pilipinas. Maari mong piliin kung kanino mo gusto makipagkilala. Ang halaga ng iyong dolyares ay napakalaki sa Pilipinas kaya marami kang pagpipilian para sa iyong pangarap na mapapangasawa. Humanap ka ng isang babae na may magandang ugali na makakasama mo sa iyong pagtanda kapag nagsama na kayo sa ibang bansa.

Gustong-gusto ng mga taga-Kanluran ang mga Pilipina dahil sa kanilang natatanging kagandahan at pagkatao. Karamihan ng mga kababaihan sa Pilipinas ay malambing, kaibig-ibig, at bata. Sila ay nasa edad 20 hanggang 30 at nakakapag-ingles sila nang mahusay. Mahal nila ang mga lalaki mula sa Kanluran dahil sila ay tinatrato na may respeto at magandang asal. Subalit, maraming mga Pilipina ang nagbabago kapag nakarating na sila sa Kanluran at natutunan ang kultura nito, ngunit nananatili pa rin ang kanilang tradisyunal na ugali katulad ng pagiging mapagmahal sa pamilya, mapagkumbaba, malambing, at iba pa.

Bawat taon, maraming mga binata mula sa Kanluran ang nagpapakasal sa mga Pilipina. Mayroong mga dalawampung porsyento na hindi masayang mag-asawa ang naghihiwalay kinalaunan. Maraming nagsasabi na “Bakit ka nagpunta sa Pilipinas para pakasalan siya? ‘Kita mo, nakipaghiwalay din?” Sa katunayan, maraming mga lokal na residente sa Kanluran ang naghihiwalay din, mas mataas pa nga ito sa dalawampung porsyento. Kaya naman, hindi ito dahil nagpakasal ka sa isang Pilipina at dinala siya sa Kanluran, siya ay nakipaghiwalay sa’yo.

Mga Batang Pilipina at matatandang kalalakihan

Kung ikaw ay may pagkakataon na magpakasal sa isang mas batang babae, bakit hindi mo gagawin? Pumili ka ng isang mabuting babae, at sa tingin ko magiging maayos ang inyong pagsasama. Karamihan sa mga batang Pilipina ang naghahanap ng mapapangasawa sa Kanluran upang makatira sila sa lupain na maraming oportunidad. Madali kang makakahanap ng babae na mas bata sa’yo ng mga 20 hanggang 25 na taon sa Pilipinas.

Paano mo pipiliin ang nararapat na babae?

Dapat mong tingnan ang babae sa lahat ng aspeto, at hindi lamang sa isang maliit na parte ng kanyang katawan. Marami sa mga kalalakihan ang ganito ang pagtingin, interesado lamang sila sa maliit na parte ng katawan ng babae at hindi na papansinin ang kanyang pagkatao katulad ng kaniyang ugali, katangian, at iba pa, na isang pagkakamali. Dapat mong pahalagahan ang isang babae ayon sa kaniyang pagkatao.

Marami sa mga kababaihan ay malaki ang ipinagbago sa modernong panahon ngayon, lalo na kapag pumupunta sila sa mga mauunlad na bansa upang sandaling manirahan, sila ay masasanay na sa Kulturang-Kanluran. Kapag ikaw ay nakakilala ng isang Pilipina, maiisip mo na siya ay magbabago kapag nanirahan na siya sa ibang bansa. Kailangan mong iayon ang sarili mong pag-iisip at pagkilos na naayon sa kaniya o pumili ka ng isang babae na higit isang-daang porsyento na mas mataas sa pamantayan mo. Sa pagtira sa ibang bansa sa loob ng ilang taon, babaguhin niya ang limampung porsyento upang manatiling isang-daang porsyente na pasok sa iyong pamantayan.

Bago magdesisyon na maghanap ng isang Pilipina, dapat mo munang isipin kung ano ang tipo ng babae na iyong gusto. Maari kang maghanap ng maraming kababaihan sa Filipinodatings.com at makipag-ugnayan sa kanila. Sunod ay piliin ang pinaka-nararapat para sa iyo. Kakailanganin mo ng mga ilang buwan para makipag-usap sa kaniya para siguraduhing siya na ang pinaka-nararapat. Maari kang makipagkita sa ilang babae sa Pilipinas para piliin ang nararapat na kasama sa habang-buhay.

Bawat kalalakihan ay may ninanais na kaniyang tipo ng babae. Sa halip na maglista ng mga tipo ng kababaihan ang dapat mong pakasalan, ililista ko ang mga tipo ng kababaihan na hindi mo dapat pakasalan.

  • Yung babaeng sobrang selosa na gagawing miserable ang iyong buhay. Ang isang labis na selosang babae ay maari kang saktan kaya’t subukang umiwas sa katulad nila.
  • Ang napakatalinong babae ay gagawin kang malungkot dahil naging mahina kang lalaki sa kanyang buhay. Siya ay masyadong maraming hangarin at dahill doon ay magiging palautos at siya’y magiging isang guro sa iyong buhay.
  • Ang babaeng nakadepende ay umaasa na ikaw ang magdala ng pera sa inyong bahay, hindi siya angkop sa pamumuhay sa ibang bansa.
  • Ang babaeng sobrang mapagpahalaga sa sarili at hindi ka iniintindi at ang iyong pamilya. Gagamitin niya ang pera mo nang hindi iniisip kung gaano mo pinaghirapan ang kinikita mo.
  • Ang babaeng masyadong mapagpahalaga sa mga materyal na bagay ay madalas na nagtatanong sa iyong trabaho, anong sasakyan ang minamaheho mo, gaano karami ang laman ng bangko mo, kung may bahay ka ba, at iba pa. Hindi angkop ang ganitong babae para sa landas ng kasalan.
  • Ang babae na gusto kang baguhin. May mga kababaihan na gusto kang baguhin ayon sa kanilang pangangailangan. Matapos ang inyong kasal sa ilang panahon, mararamdaman mo na gusto ka talaga niyang baguhin ayon sa kaniyang pamumuhay. Dapat mong pakasalan ang isang babae na handa kang tanggapin kung sino ka.
  • Ang babaeng madaldal na walang ibang gustong gawin kung hindi pag-usapan ang pamilya at kapitbahay ng ibang tao. Siya ay handa na maging tagapagbalita para sa lahat.

Sa pangkalahatan, dapat mong piliin ang babae na pasok sa iyong pamantayan. Bigyang atensyon ang kaniyang personalidad at hindi ang kaniyang panlabas na anyo. Kapag ikaw ay nakakilala ng isang Pilipina online, wala ka gaanong oras para makipag-usap sa kanya. Kung ikaw ay isang expat sa Pilipinas, mayroon kang pagkakataon upang maglaan ng oras para sa kanya bago ang kasal. Kung gusto mong magpakasal ng Pilipna at dalhin siya sa Kanluran, dapat hindi mo muna siya pakasalan sa unang punta ninyo. Maglaan ka muna ng oras kasama siya at kaniyang pamilya upang makilala mo silang mabuti. Sa gayon, maari ka nang bumalik sa inyong bansa at pag-isipang mabuti kung siya na ba o hindi ang nararapat sa’yo bago ka bumalik at magpakasal.

Gusto kong ibahagi sa inyo ang kultura sa Pilipinas. Iniisip ng maraming Pilipina na ang kasal ay isang seryosong bagay sa kanilang buhay. Kung seryoso ka talaga, pakasalan mo siya at dalhin sa ibang bansa. Subalit, huwag kang magpapakasal sa isang Pilipina para lamang sa pakikipagtalik at bigla lamang aalis. Hindi magandang bagay iyon.

Muli, ako si Tony. Ginawa ko ang Filipinodatings.com upang makipagkilala ang mga walang asawa tungo sa pagpapakasal. Kung ikaw ay binata at naghahanap ng isang Pilipina, sumali na para gawin ang iyong personal profile upang makapagsimula. Libo-libong mga Pilipina ang naghihintay sa’yo online.

Pagbati at magpakasaya!

Filipino Women (Filipinas) – Dating & Marriage With Western Men

Hi, I am Tony. I developed FilipinoDatings.com. A free dating website to hook up Filipinas with men in the West for dating, relationship and marriage. I need to verify some terms to make sure you understand what I mean. Filipinas are women who live in the Philippines or simply women citizens of the Philippines. Men in the west are Western men, but Pinoys who are living in the West are still called Pinoys, they are, in my experience, never called Westerners or men from the West. They are simply called Fil-Ams (Filipino-Americans) for example.

Filipina lady and American men in the Philippines

Filipina lady and American men in the Philippines

Every year, thousands of single men from the West visit the Philippines to date or get married with Filipinas whom they already know through the online dating sites or introductions from families or friends. Single men go to the Philippines to get married with women is a long story. There is success and happiness but also failure and suffering. Let me list some details so that we can reflect together, whether or not it’s a wise choice to marry a Filipino woman and sponsor her to live abroad. I also like to say about what type of women you should choose if you want to sponsor her to the West.

You are so lucky to be a single man who lives in the West. It doesn’t matter whether you were born or naturalized citizen in the West, you are the dream of thousands of Filipnias who live in the Philippines. You know what I mean. Many of them dream to marry a foreign guy so they can come abroad to work and make money.

Filipino women are popular to Western men because they are stunning and beautiful. Their personality is outstanding. When you see a white man and an Filipino woman, what do you think? The question that comes to your mind would be how an Filipino woman attracts to a Western man that much.

Filipino women have outstanding personality that Western women don’t have. One of the personalities that are observed is the way they behave with their husband.

  • They cook meal daily.
  • They do the housework.
  • They take care of their children.
  • They do these errands with happiness.

The main reason that a Western man wants to marry a Filipino woman is the physical appearance and personality. They have shiny black hair, slender figures, and appealing eyes, which attract to men a lot. They put high value in their relationship and marriage. They are faithful with their husband. They don’t do anything to damage their marriage. A Filipina will stand by your side no matter what you do. She will help and support you. The way that she behaves plus the beautiful slender figure make her a complete model wife. Filipino women are good house workers. They manage and organize the household very well.

Filipinas in Manila street of Philippines

Filipinas in Manila street of Philippines

Generally speaking, here are 10 golden traits about Filipinas:

  1. She lets you take the lead of the family. You make decision because you are the head of the household.
  2. She is submissive. She listens to what you say no matter what.
  3.  In the morning when you wake up and climb out of bed, there is a cup of fresh coffee on the table. She stays there, chats with you and waits for you until you finish it.
  4. Some of them even put your clothes and bath tower in the bathroom when you take a bath every day.
  5.  She cooks delicious daily meals for you. After you finish eating, she washes the dishes.
  6. She is a good money handler. She will ask you every time she spends the money in the house.
  7.  She keeps herself in good shape even after she had babies.
  8. She does not go out with her friends without you.
  9.  She does not give you “cold shoulder” in the bedroom, even though sometimes she is not in a good mood.
  10. She is the fresh “new bride” in the bedroom every day.

In general, it’s hard for a man to recognize a woman who really loves him or just want a VISA to come to a Western country. Filipino women who live in the West are different from women who live in the Philippines. You need to pay attention to the way she talks to conclude whether or not she is reliable.

When dating or marrying Filipino women in the Philippines, you should carefully choose the gentle person who has good personality and beautiful physical appearance. There are many good women living in the Philippines. On Filipinodatings.com website that I developed, most women are very decent and honest. If you like to interact with “instant noodles” type of woman, you should be careful. Good and decent women will not accept the liberal lifestyle like instant noodles style. They will choose a good man to get married with so it takes time get know each other. When you got her heart, she is yours forever. In other words, if a Filipina accepts you to be her husband, then you marry her for life.

Don’t date or marry a Filipina like your grand-child age

There are many older men who married a woman like 30 or even 40 years younger than they are. Most of such relationships will break up when they are in the West. Some men don’t care about that. If the marriage breaks up, then he will go back to the Philippines to marry another woman.

It doesn’t matter whether you are a rich or poor man, women will go around you and treat you like a king when you’re in the Philippines. You can pick the best one to date with. Your dollars value so big in the Philippines so you have many options to choose the dream woman. I suggest that you find a woman with good personality whom will grow old with you when she comes abroad.

Men in the West love Filipinas because of their physical appearance and personality. Most of women in the Philippines are sweet, lovely and young. They are in the age between 20 to 30 years old. They speak English very well. They love men in the West because they are treated with respects and good manner. However, most of Filipinas change when they come to the West because they learn the Western culture. But they still keep the traditional value like family oriented, submissive, gentle, and so on.

Nowadays, there are thousands of single men in the West get married with Filipinas every year. There are about 20% of unhappy couples which break up along the road. Many people say that, “Why did you go to the Philippines to marry her? She divorced you, see?”. In fact, many local couples in the West get divorced too. The divorce rate is even higher than 20%. So, it’s not about you get married with a Filipina and sponsor her to the West, she divorced you.

Young Filipinas and older men

If you have an opportunity to marry a young woman, then why not do it? You choose a good woman, I think your relationship works out just fine. Most of young Filipinas are seeking a husband in the West so they can live in the land of opportunities. You can find a woman who is younger than you 20 or 25 years old at ease in the country.

How to choose the right woman?

You should look at the woman in all parts, not a small part on her body. Some men are only interested in a small part of the woman and ignore the rest of her like the personality, traits, and so on, which is a mistake. You should rate a woman by her personality.

Women today have changed a lot in this modern age, especially when they go to developed countries to live for a while, they will become accustomed to Western culture. When you get acquainted with a Filipina, you have to think that she will change when living abroad. You need to adjust your own thinking and behavior to fit her or choose a woman that meets your standards of up to 150 percent. When living abroad for a few years, she will change about 50 percent to remain 100% that fit your standards.

Before deciding to search for a Filpino woman for marriage, you should think about what type of woman you like. You can search for many women at Filipinodatings.com and contact them. Then, you select the best ones to chat with. You will need a few months to chat with her to make sure she is the best one. You can have a few women to meet in the Philippines to choose the the perfect life match.

Every man has his own type of woman he likes. In stead of listing what type of woman you should marry, I am going to  list 7 types of woman you should not get married with.

  1. The very jealous woman will make your life miserable and anxious. A very jealous woman may hurt you in your lifetime so try to stay away from them.
  2. The very wise woman will make you depressed because you became a weak man in her life. She has too much ambitious goals in mind so she will become bossy and a teacher in your life.
  3. The too dependent woman will rely on the money you bring home. She is not suitable for living abroad.
  4. The woman who cares too much for herself without thinking about you and your family. She will use your money to take care of herself without thinking how hard you work to make money.
  5. The too much materialistic woman usually asks about your occupation, what kind of car you are driving, how much money you have in the bank, do you have a house, and so on. This kind of woman can not be an ideal wife in a marital journey.
  6. The woman who tries to change you. Some women always find ways to change you to fit her needs. After getting married for some time, you feel that she really wants to change you to meet her life. You should marry a woman who is willing accept who you are, which is better.
  7. The talkative woman doesn’t want to do anything but prefer to talk to other people’s families and neighbors. She is ready to be a loudspeaker broadcaster of the news of everyone.

In general, you should choose a woman that suits your standards. Pay attention to her personality in stead of her physical appearance. When you get acquainted with a Filipino woman online, you don’t have much time to communicate with her. If you are an expat in the Philippines, then you have more time to hang out with her before marriage. If you decide to marry a Filipina and sponsor her to the West, then you should not marry her during the first trip. You should spend a few weeks there to know her and her family. Then, you can go back to your country and carefully think about whether or not she is a perfect match before coming back to get married.

I like to share this with you about cultural custom in the Phillipines. Most Filipinas think that marriage is the serious commitment in their life. If you are truly serious, then marry her and sponsor her to live abroad. However, I advise you not to marry a Filipina for just having sex and then run away. That’s not nice at all.

Again, I am Tony. I developed Filipinodatings.com to hook up singles online and go further for marriage. If you are single and looking for a Filipina, then please sign up for a personal profile to get started. Thousands of single women in the Philippines are waiting to meet you online.

Good luck and have fun!

Why do Filipino Americans find love from online dating sites?

Filipino Americans are Americans of Filipino descent. They are called Pilipino Amerikano in Tagalog or Fil-Ams or Pinoy in English. They were either born in the US or citizens by naturalized. There are about 4 millions Filipino Americans in the US. They are the second largest Asian group, after Chinese Americans. Most of them who were born or lived here for a long time, act like native Americans. They are educated, get good degree, work hard and etc. However, they have a hard time to find their life partner because of the shortage of Filipino people and the diversity of where they live. There is about 1.2% Filipino people of the total US population. This is the reason they use online dating sites to find their life mate.

Filipino American woman at Ocean city beach

Filipino American woman at Ocean city beach

Even though they lived in the US for a long time and many of them were born here, they still keep the Philippines cultural values and learn the American cultural values. So, when they apply both cultural values together, it make them the perfect people in America. They value family and place a high value on becoming wives and mothers. Family is the first priority. What they learn about American values is the respectful behavior of people treating each other. The only issue is the shortage of Pinoy in this country that make them use the internet dating services to find love online. Some of Filipino American men open to local single Filipina girls who live in the Philippines. They get acquainted with Filipina ladies in their hometown through the internet, go back there to marry them, and then sponsor them over to America.

Regions with significant populations of Pilipino Amerikano are:

California (1,474,707), Hawaii (342,095), Illinois (139,090), Texas (137,713), Washington (137,083), New Jersey (126,793), New York (126,129), Nevada (123,891), Florida (122,691), Virginia (90,493), Maryland (56,909), Arizona (53,067) (Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filipino_American)

Filipino American singles gather at the club or bar, restaurants, markets to find their second half. In fact, there are not many Filipino personals there so the chance is rare. Unless they are open to all races, the opportunity to find a date is hard in this country. However, most of Fil-Ams like to date or marry within their own race. They’d rather go back to the Philippines to marry a bride in stead of marry a White or Black woman in America. In other words, there are thousands of new Filipino brides come to the US through sponsorship from their husbands every year. You seldom see Filipino American women go back to their hometown to marry normal guys, they only marry high educated guys or rich guys because they can bring their husbands back to the greatest country on the world to live. Filipino men in America are open to all girls in the Philippines, especially young single women.

According to this modern Era, there are many singles in the Philippines want to migrate to the US. America is the greatest country on the world where people can enjoy the gender freedom, fresh air, clean food, excellent education, and etc. Therefore, many local Filipino women and men want to live here. Every year, there are thousands of Filipino women come to the US by getting married with Pinoy and American men. Also, many rich Filipino men marry with Filipino American women and come to the US to live, as well as wealthy Filipino people invest in America through restaurants, gas station, markets, real estate and so on. As a result, the Filipino community in American grows rapidly in the last few years.

In conclusion, Pilipino Amerikano seeking their significant partner through the Philippines dating websites because of the shortage of Filipinos in America. They have to gather online to meet each other for love and romance, relationship and marriage.

If you are one of the single Pilipino Amerikano (Pinoy or Pinay) or local Filipino women or men currently living in the Philippines, want to find a second half here, then please post your personal background here including name, age, location, interests, hobby, what type of person you are seeking, and include your picture. Thank you very much!

To All Filipino-born Women: Is America Still Considered The Land Of Opportunity?

There are thousands of Filipino women who migrate to America every year and they got surprised about life in this country. So, is America still considered the land of opportunity? I am writing this article to explain whether or not the US is still the great country as its nickname had previously. If you are one of those Filipino-born ladies seeking men in the US or planning to migrate here, then you should read this article to understand about it.

Filipino-American woman in Los Angeles of California

Filipino-American woman in Los Angeles of California

Previously, the nickname “the land of opportunity” that Filipinas, Hispanic, European and African immigrants called the US is because it can provide many life options, including money earning, career choice, education, fresh air, clean food, and etc, that they didn’t have in their home nations. However, there are some barriers that these immigrants don’t know is the language which has become the main factor, making it hard to their success in the United States of America. Unless you speak and write English well, you will have problems to obtain your successful life in this country.

Most Filipino women don’t understand about life in the US look like. They might have heard many Filipino American men show off their rich materials when they come back to their home country in the Philippines. These guys worked very hard to earn money and save it, then go back to their home town, tell young ladies about fairy tails in their lifestyle in America, make these ladies misunderstood about the US. I’ve been living in America for 20 years so I know exactly how my parents worked hard to take care of me and my siblings. It is not easy, ladies, you have to work so hard to make a living in this country. I remember by the time I was still in the Philippines. My parents could ask a home builder to build a small house that suits our budget. In the US, we can’t just build a house like we did in the Philippines. Every house must meet the zoning and development standards.

Another thing is that most of your professional degrees you have in the Philippines are not accepted in America. You have to go back to school and get a Bachelor or Master degree in this country. I will conclude that America’s nickname “the land of opportunity” is still suitable because I don’t see if there is any other country that suits better for this nickname. However, back in the 1980s, 1990, 2000, most Filipino immigrants could make an easier living in America. Nowadays, most immigrants must work harder but earn less than what they had previously. I think because the numbers of immigrants come to the US are increasing in the last decade, most people have hard time to make a living here.

Filipino-American man

Filipino-American man

America is still considered the land of opportunity for many Filipino millionaires and billionaires who want to invest in real estate and other businesses like restaurants, supermarkets, gas station and so on. Most Filipino investors can start a new business in America easily and safety without going through the costly and lengthy process like they do in the Philippines. For instance, when you open a new company in Philippines, you have to give the “envelop of money” or special “gifts” to local officials to get the paperwork go through easily. When your company is running, you must continue giving the “envelop of money” to your local officials as well.

There are many Filipino ladies at our dating site have asked me about whether or not they should come to the US with their husbands they have met at this site. As mentioned above, I think America, in 2015, still considered its nickname as the land of opportunity, but most newcomers must work harder to be successful. Don’t believe all words about Filipino men in the US said, including Chinese American, Filipino American, Korean American, Vietnamese American, Thai American, Indian American, because what they said are the advantages they went through. There are some people who have had some barriers when making a living in the US.

English is the language you need to know. I think Filipino, Russian, and other Western immigrants have no problems with speaking English. Chinese, Vietnamese, Korean, Thai immigrants usually have problems with English. If you don’t know English well enough, then it is hard to find a job here, unless you work in restaurant or supermarket that you can speak your language.

It is hard to get a Bachelor degree in the US. As you know, you must know English to attend the community colleges. English is the most important factor to determine whether or not you are successful in this country. Money is not about the issue. You can apply for financial aid to pay for your college tuition.

I suggest you go to college and earn a degree to make good money. It is easy to find a professional job if you have a Bachelor (BS) degree. The salary for a professional with a BS degree is about $45,000 per year (new graduate) and may be $100,000 per year (with 10 years working experience). However, if you work in a supermarket or restaurant, then you may get about $15,000 per year for starting and $20,000 per year after 10 years. Do you see the difference?

So, I hope I listed some important tips about life in the US. It is not what you think it is. This is the truth. If you dream of marry a single man in the US, then you should sign up a profile at our dating site. Most Filipino women who have come to America would adapt to the American lifestyle, so can you. In 2015, I personally think America is still the land of opportunity for Philippines immigrants. Good luck!

Filipino Americans (Fil-Ams) Men That Filipina Ladies Want To Marry

Filipino American men are those who born or became naturalized in the United States. There are differences between the fresh Filipinos who just migrated to the US and those who have been living in the US for a long time. If you look at a new Filipino, then you know he just came here based on the clothes he wears (tsinelas, etc.) or the food he eats as well as the heavily Spanish thick accent they speak English. However, it is the culture in the Philippines that  he carries over and that’s good. So, American born Filipinos and those who have been her since the young age are weighted higher than the fresh Philippines people.

Pinoy and Pinay in US

Pinoy and Pinay in US

Who do the Filipino women back home want to marry?

Do they have a chance to pick?

They don’t, really. Of course, most of single women in the Philippines prefer to marry American born Filipino men. The goal to marry a Pinoy is to come to the US to work and/or expand their business, make good money, establish a great future for themselves and their kids. So, they have no option. I have to tell that most Filipino Americans born here or been her since the young age, they are Americanized. They don’t even know about the traditional culture values of the local people in the Philippines.

The woman in the Philippines prefers to marry newbie Filipino American men because they want to share cultural values, of course, if they have an option. Most of Filipina ladies who are in search of American-born Filipino guys or native Americans are for citizenship. You can argue with me about this but most of them have poor living conditions and want to move out of the Philippines to make money. Their goal is to get out of there, migrate to the US, work and make money to help their parents and siblings. There are other reasons that single ladies from the Philippines marry Filipino Americans.

You can see at our Filipino online dating site here, there are some not-poor Filipino ladies posting their profiles to find single men in the United States. They want to migrate to the US for a business opportunities, fresh air, gender freedom, good and clean food, and excellent school for their kids later on. So, they are not seeking the opportunity to get their foot on the US soil and then leave their husbands once they got the green card (permanent resident). No, that’s not the only reason for those middle or rich-class who are looking for Filipino American husbands. Some people say that Filipinos/Filipinas born in US are not Filipinos at all, this is wrong, they are Filipinos.

There are Pinays who don’t completely understand about Filipino men in the US. What they have seen or heard is from friends, TV and media. There are some things else they need to actually be here in the US to understand about that. For example, the Filipina ladies don’t understand about credit card or mortgage debt that most Pinoys do. In the United States, most people have credit card or mortgage debt and it is normal. As soon as you pay for these debts monthly, you are fine. Even millionaire people have debts as well. However, most people back home don’t have debt. In fact, they can’t lend money if they are poor. They can’t use credit card or buy a house without fully pay for it. So, make sure you guys, Filipino Americans don’t mention about those debts or you must explain clearly about that.

Don’t listen to what others say about Filipina ladies leaving you after they became a permanent resident of the US. Only a few of them leave their husbands for someone else because of dishonesty from the husbands. I suggest you tell the truth about life in America before you marry her. If you are a cleaner and earn 70,000 pesos a month or you work as a software engineer and make 400,000 a month, then tell her about that. Don’t try to “show off” too much about US lifestyle. When she comes to America, she will find out the truth.

In conclusion, the Filipino American men that local single women in the Philippines like to marry are those who were American born or raised in the US as well as those who just migrated to this country. Of course, they don’t have an option to select. You are a Filipino man who lives in the US, no matter who old you are, you can get married with a beautiful and young Pinay back home.

Why do Filipina women show off their White husbands too much?

Filipina women who marry white husband claim high status in the Philippines. White men are considered as the most stunning and great men in this country. So, single women here are so proud to walk with white guys. They usually show off their white husbands to relatives, friends and even strangers on public.

Filipino women and White men

Filipino women and White men (Photo: youtube)

In the Philippines, having a white husband is the pride for her family and siblings, as well as relatives. It does not matter who old he is, a white spouse is viewed as the special status in the family. Most of Filipino women, their parents and siblings, try to show off this white guy every time they have a chance. When she has a half-white kid, they show off this kid as well. This is the routine that happens to most of Filipino-wife-White-husband families.

It is about the culture and society. The white is always better than dark color. Also, most Filipina ladies are taught to look for a better man than them. They always try to marry up for better. Another reason is that the bad rumors from Filipino men about domestic violence make them scared of marrying a local man. The poor living condition is also the reason they want to look for a white husband. Most of them are trying to get out of the country where they can’t find a bright future. They are trying to marry a white man to have an opportunity to work and earn dollars in the Western nation.

Back to our topic, Filipinos consider white skin is the better. Most of them are trying to change their skin color by using skin whitening products to have a whiter skin. Marrying a white dude is the dream that comes true. Their children will have the best white skin ever. They are proud to be white. When a Filipina married a white husband, he is like her high brand. Of course, she will show off her husband wherever she has a chance. Her parents will show off their grand-children as well. Every one in her family will show off this white dude too.

It is about the culture. The Philippines people show off the good things and hide the ugly things. When a Filipina girl who married to a Caucasian, certainly, he is her pride. She is proud of herself. She thinks her life is on the higher status in the society. When she walks with a white spouse, she feel confident, safe and proud. She is happy with a white, tall and handsome husband. Then, it is okay for her to show off with other people.

Many of single women in the Philippines who signed up at our free dating site to find Western men try to show off their “cool” and “high-level” husbands after marriage. I think it is okay to do so if you are proud of yourself about your husband.

However, there are some Filipina girls who completely changed their characteristics after they married a Caucasian husband, this is not good. They think that they are considered as the high status and living condition. Their behavior has changed. They don’t talk to the neighbors and friends. They think these neighbors and friends are “low” class so they don’t talk or even look at anymore. This isn’t right at all.

Anyway, the Filipina ladies who marry white husbands show off with their friends and even strangers. Especially their mothers always try to show off their son-in-laws in front of people. I mean, they are too proud to have the white dude as a member of the family.

Filipina Ladies & the Illusions of the United States of America

Many Filipina ladies who signed a profile through an online Filipino dating site believe the America is the land of opportunities that they can make easy living. They might have heard either Filipino Americans or Native Americans tell the myths about this country. Being a Pinoy who lives in the US for 25 years, I am writing this article to tell the truth about the USA country, not like what they believe it is.

Filipino ladies n Illusions of life in the US

Filipino ladies n Illusions of life in the US

Americans really work hard to make a living. They are stressful when thinking about bills such as mortgages, utilities, credit card, insurances, and so on. The cost of living in America is like 10 times higher than the Philippines. For example, when you make less than 20,000 pesos a month, it is hard to live in this country, especially in New York and California. The cost of living is high in these US States. One bedroom apartment for rent may cost you 16,000 pesos. If you live by yourself and make 20,000 pesos, then you can’t rent an apartment. American people who are making less money, have to share a room with others from single family houses or town houses. A room for share costs about 7,000 pesos.

What about the earning and income?

When you are hired to cut grass around some people’s houses, the boss can pay you 1,400 pesos a day. So you can make 40,000 pesos a month if you work 30 days. The meal at fast food restaurants like McDonald or Burger King is about 50 pesos. One of the most important thing in America is the health insurance that you must buy. The cost of the hospitalization is extremely expensive. Of course, you get the excellent service in the hospitals in America. So, you must buy medical health insurance. It may cost you another 4,000 pesos a month.

Filipina woman in America

Filipina woman in America

The cost of living in other US states is cheaper, including Texas, Florida, Georgia, and etc.

So, if you make 40,000 pesos in the Philippines, then you should not come to the US, unless you want your children go to school here. The education cost for children from 1st grade to 12th grade is 100% free. You have to pay the lunch for your kids though. The lunch cost is about 33 pesos per meal. If your income meet the standard of low income, then the school will pay for your children too. Some Filipino women don’t understand clearly about life in America so this article may help you thoroughly understand about that.

When you meet an American at a Filipina dating site, you will need to ask him about the cost of living in the US. It is very expensive that what you thought. Don’t think it simply by just judging the way you saw and heard a Filipino American spent money over there. He must work very hard in the US so he can spend money over there. Of course, the US dollars are big in the Philippines. For instance, he makes 50,000 pesos a month in America, after expenses paid, he can save around 20,000 pesos. If he brings about 100,000 pesos and spend in the Philippines, then you may say “woh”, he is rich. In fact, he is not rich at all.

I hope you thoroughly understand about the life in American which is not as easy as you believe. After reading it over, if you still decide to meet a Pinoy or an American to come to the US, then go ahead to create a profile at our free Filipino dating site now. Good luck!

Woh, Filipino men! you guys are gorgeous, so be confident!

Filipino men are the most beautiful and gorgeous men in Asia. They are not the same as Korean, Chinese, Japanese, and Vietnamese etc. They are strong and cute with the perfect skin color of bronze tan and attractive hair. However, the only issue that Western women complain about the Pinoy guys is the lack of confidence when it comes to dating, love and relationship. They take too much time to approach the lady they like after she turns on “green light”.

Filipino men are gorgeous and cute

Filipino men are gorgeous and cute

Filipino men are shy

That’s right. They are shy compared to Western men such as Caucasians and Blacks. These Western men are more friendly and open to the woman even though she is still on “yellow light”. They just approach to talk and joke with any woman they like. In America, Canada and Australia, Pinoy men are judged by the most beautiful and gorgeous Asian men by Western ladies. They look strong and cute.

Why taking so long to approach to a girl when she turns on the green light?

I think it is about the Philippines culture. When it comes to dating, relationship and marriage, most singles take it seriously. They want to investigate the opposite side to make sure they are perfect matched. They want a lifelong commitment. So, they take time to carefully think about that person before they approach. This is one of the best traits about Filipino single men in the Philippines and those who live in the West.

Do you know why you are the most stunning Asian men in the West?

You guys look strong and cute and speak English with American voice. I think many Filipino men hang out with non-Filipino friends including White, Black and Hispanic. This is a good thing. As you know most Asian people usually don’t like to hang out with non-Asian friends. You guys are different. This is another reason that Caucasian women love about Philippines men.

How about Filipino women?

Certainly, Filipino guys don’t have much issues from their own race. I have not heard any complain from Filipina ladies about Pinoy men who live in the West. Only local Filipina girls from the hometown Philippines complain about domestic violence from some men back home. Generally speaking, Filipino guys are good in term of dating and marriage. They take care of their family and children.

No wondering there are thousands of single Filipino men signing up through online dating sites like Filipinodatings.com and others to find Caucasian and Filipina ladies for dating and marriage. Of course, to find a Pinay lady for dating, you sleep through it. However, seeking a Caucasian girl for dating requires more self confidence from you guys. Be confident when you like and approach a single woman. Don’t take too much time. Go for it.

Who Wants Dating & Marrying a Filipino Woman, Read Here

From courting to love to marriage with a Filipino woman is long process that men must be patient to succeed. If you are a man who pursues a dream of dating or marrying a Filipino wife, then please post your comments below. You can have a link to your profile at our online dating site FilipinoDatings.com if you have one. I don’t give too much compliments about them but only the truth.

Why are they falling for foreign men?

Filipino women & foreign men

Filipino women & foreign men (Picture from Tropicalmba)

There are many reasons that they fall for foreign men. Many men thinks that Filipino ladies love foreign men just because of money. This is a myth or it is only applied to some women in the Philippines. A Filipina lady loves her husband more than anything else in the world. Money is just a bonus in love. Even though they work for small money, they don’t consider it as the utmost important thing in choosing her life mate.

What women in the Philippines fall on foreign men is the good personality and characteristics. They want a man who treats his wife with respect and are responsible with his family. There are many good local men in this country too but most of them gather with friends after work for drinking. They are not responsible for family. Foreign men work hard and they get home with their family after work. Just imagine one situation, you are a person who get home right away after work to cook and take care of your kids while your husband hangs out with his friends for drinking and come home by 9 or 10 PM. Most Filipino wives don’t like about this. They want a man who considers his family the utmost important thing in life.

Why do foreign men fall on Philippine women?

Beautiful & sexy

Filipino women are beautiful and sexy even after they have babies. They have unique Asian beauties so no wonder why many men are dreaming them today. There are other Asian women out there but Filipina ladies are chosen the most by men, Asian men and Western men.

Beautiful Filipino girlsBeautiful Filipino girls (Picture from myblueheart)

Extraordinary characteristics

Women in the Philippines consider marriage as the lifelong commitment. They are careful in choosing a life partner. They are happy to serve their counterpart and kids. They also serve their husband’s parents, especially elders. They think that’s their responsibility to do so. They are master of being a wife and mother role. However, don’t think they are a maid, which is touching their self esteem. They are happy to serve you, your children and parents. Filipina girls are family oriented.

Generosity, Tolerance & Gratitude

Sometimes they give too much for others but don’t get back. They just want to help people without expecting to get in return. The tolerance is a great characteristic that helps them to build and maintain a relationship lifelong. There are ups and downs in marriage relationship but Filipino ladies are tolerable for their husbands to keep the marriage going. Plus, their gratitude helps the great part of their foundation in life.

There are other beautiful traits about Filipino women that I wrote from other articles, you can read to learn more about them.

If you are one of single men seeking Filipino women, or ladies in the Philippines finding online men, then post your comments below by writing about your personal information such as location, age, career, height, weight, education, religion, email address, a profile link if you have one at Filipinodatings.com.

Good Reasons For Dating or Marrying a Filipina Lady

What makes a Filipina lady the most wanted girlfriend or wife for Western men is her amazing femininity and charm. Thousands of foreign men prefer to establish a long lasting relationship with a Filipino woman.

Filipino women

Filipino women (Photo: admu.edu)

There are many reasons why Filipino women make excellent girlfriends or wives. Many men are planning to pursue their dream of marrying a single Philippines woman. Every year, there are thousands of Filipina brides come to Western countries. Also, many foreign men married these ladies and choose to live in the Philippines. Generally speaking, Filipina ladies stand out of the crowd among other Asian ladies because they are friendly, charming and appealing.

Marrying a Filipina woman is every man’s dream. Men in the Philippines are lucky that they can date and marry the most beautiful and stunning women on this planet. Filipina women are friendly, polite and submissive. They speak friendly and in low tones. They are faithful in love, relationship and marriage. Foreign men like these traits the most. They like to marry a loyal wife and Filipina lady is the best choice. Filipino ladies are willing to put their family before anything else, even money or career. The Philippines is a developed country so most people don’t make as much money as people from other developed countries, so, they view the strong family bonds as their richness and they take good care of that.

Most of Filipino-Western marriages are successful and considered a lifetime. The divorce rate is rare for such inter-racial marriages even when they come to the West. International men usually want a long lasting marriage and Filipina ladies are the right choice. A Philippines woman is popular for being attentive, caring, friendly and appealing. There are no words to describe how good they are. They can sacrifice their careers to have a good family. They don’t think about themselves but the husband and children. They want to be submissive and they want you, husbands, take a lead of the family.

Filipina ladies with Western husbands

Filipina ladies with Western husbands (Google images)

I am not a Filipino man who tries to give too much compliments on Filipina ladies. That’s absolutely true about them. In summary, below are some good traits about the Philippines girls.

  • Excellent personality – Most of Filipino women seem to be quiet. They speak in low tones so they rarely argue with their husband. They are not stubborn women because they don’t want to quarrel with you. They don’t criticize about your bad sides. They accept you as the husband, who you are.
  • Family as a high priority – Money is the main cause for divorces in Western people. In the United States or Canada, for instance, if you get laid off for long and don’t have money to pay for bills, then your life partner will divorce you. The Philippines is a poor country where people make about $1 per hour on average. However, they don’t consider money as the most important thing in life but they consider the family bond as the priority thing. A Filipina lady values family and her marriage as the most important thing.
  • Beauty and sex – This is the most important factor that international men fall on them. Filipino women are beautiful because of the mixing of the European (Spanish) blood with the Filipino. In terms of sex, each Filipina wife knows how to cheer you up by making you feel like “a new bride” every day.