To All Filipino-born Women: Is America Still Considered The Land Of Opportunity?

There are thousands of Filipino women who migrate to America every year and they got surprised about life in this country. So, is America still considered the land of opportunity? I am writing this article to explain whether or not the US is still the great country as its nickname had previously. If you are one of those Filipino-born ladies seeking men in the US or planning to migrate here, then you should read this article to understand about it.

Filipino-American woman in Los Angeles of California

Filipino-American woman in Los Angeles of California

Previously, the nickname “the land of opportunity” that Filipinas, Hispanic, European and African immigrants called the US is because it can provide many life options, including money earning, career choice, education, fresh air, clean food, and etc, that they didn’t have in their home nations. However, there are some barriers that these immigrants don’t know is the language which has become the main factor, making it hard to their success in the United States of America. Unless you speak and write English well, you will have problems to obtain your successful life in this country.

Most Filipino women don’t understand about life in the US look like. They might have heard many Filipino American men show off their rich materials when they come back to their home country in the Philippines. These guys worked very hard to earn money and save it, then go back to their home town, tell young ladies about fairy tails in their lifestyle in America, make these ladies misunderstood about the US. I’ve been living in America for 20 years so I know exactly how my parents worked hard to take care of me and my siblings. It is not easy, ladies, you have to work so hard to make a living in this country. I remember by the time I was still in the Philippines. My parents could ask a home builder to build a small house that suits our budget. In the US, we can’t just build a house like we did in the Philippines. Every house must meet the zoning and development standards.

Another thing is that most of your professional degrees you have in the Philippines are not accepted in America. You have to go back to school and get a Bachelor or Master degree in this country. I will conclude that America’s nickname “the land of opportunity” is still suitable because I don’t see if there is any other country that suits better for this nickname. However, back in the 1980s, 1990, 2000, most Filipino immigrants could make an easier living in America. Nowadays, most immigrants must work harder but earn less than what they had previously. I think because the numbers of immigrants come to the US are increasing in the last decade, most people have hard time to make a living here.

Filipino-American man

Filipino-American man

America is still considered the land of opportunity for many Filipino millionaires and billionaires who want to invest in real estate and other businesses like restaurants, supermarkets, gas station and so on. Most Filipino investors can start a new business in America easily and safety without going through the costly and lengthy process like they do in the Philippines. For instance, when you open a new company in Philippines, you have to give the “envelop of money” or special “gifts” to local officials to get the paperwork go through easily. When your company is running, you must continue giving the “envelop of money” to your local officials as well.

There are many Filipino ladies at our dating site have asked me about whether or not they should come to the US with their husbands they have met at this site. As mentioned above, I think America, in 2015, still considered its nickname as the land of opportunity, but most newcomers must work harder to be successful. Don’t believe all words about Filipino men in the US said, including Chinese American, Filipino American, Korean American, Vietnamese American, Thai American, Indian American, because what they said are the advantages they went through. There are some people who have had some barriers when making a living in the US.

English is the language you need to know. I think Filipino, Russian, and other Western immigrants have no problems with speaking English. Chinese, Vietnamese, Korean, Thai immigrants usually have problems with English. If you don’t know English well enough, then it is hard to find a job here, unless you work in restaurant or supermarket that you can speak your language.

It is hard to get a Bachelor degree in the US. As you know, you must know English to attend the community colleges. English is the most important factor to determine whether or not you are successful in this country. Money is not about the issue. You can apply for financial aid to pay for your college tuition.

I suggest you go to college and earn a degree to make good money. It is easy to find a professional job if you have a Bachelor (BS) degree. The salary for a professional with a BS degree is about $45,000 per year (new graduate) and may be $100,000 per year (with 10 years working experience). However, if you work in a supermarket or restaurant, then you may get about $15,000 per year for starting and $20,000 per year after 10 years. Do you see the difference?

So, I hope I listed some important tips about life in the US. It is not what you think it is. This is the truth. If you dream of marry a single man in the US, then you should sign up a profile at our dating site. Most Filipino women who have come to America would adapt to the American lifestyle, so can you. In 2015, I personally think America is still the land of opportunity for Philippines immigrants. Good luck!

Filipino Americans (Fil-Ams) Men That Filipina Ladies Want To Marry

Filipino American men are those who born or became naturalized in the United States. There are differences between the fresh Filipinos who just migrated to the US and those who have been living in the US for a long time. If you look at a new Filipino, then you know he just came here based on the clothes he wears (tsinelas, etc.) or the food he eats as well as the heavily Spanish thick accent they speak English. However, it is the culture in the Philippines that  he carries over and that’s good. So, American born Filipinos and those who have been her since the young age are weighted higher than the fresh Philippines people.

Pinoy and Pinay in US

Pinoy and Pinay in US

Who do the Filipino women back home want to marry?

Do they have a chance to pick?

They don’t, really. Of course, most of single women in the Philippines prefer to marry American born Filipino men. The goal to marry a Pinoy is to come to the US to work and/or expand their business, make good money, establish a great future for themselves and their kids. So, they have no option. I have to tell that most Filipino Americans born here or been her since the young age, they are Americanized. They don’t even know about the traditional culture values of the local people in the Philippines.

The woman in the Philippines prefers to marry newbie Filipino American men because they want to share cultural values, of course, if they have an option. Most of Filipina ladies who are in search of American-born Filipino guys or native Americans are for citizenship. You can argue with me about this but most of them have poor living conditions and want to move out of the Philippines to make money. Their goal is to get out of there, migrate to the US, work and make money to help their parents and siblings. There are other reasons that single ladies from the Philippines marry Filipino Americans.

You can see at our Filipino online dating site here, there are some not-poor Filipino ladies posting their profiles to find single men in the United States. They want to migrate to the US for a business opportunities, fresh air, gender freedom, good and clean food, and excellent school for their kids later on. So, they are not seeking the opportunity to get their foot on the US soil and then leave their husbands once they got the green card (permanent resident). No, that’s not the only reason for those middle or rich-class who are looking for Filipino American husbands. Some people say that Filipinos/Filipinas born in US are not Filipinos at all, this is wrong, they are Filipinos.

There are Pinays who don’t completely understand about Filipino men in the US. What they have seen or heard is from friends, TV and media. There are some things else they need to actually be here in the US to understand about that. For example, the Filipina ladies don’t understand about credit card or mortgage debt that most Pinoys do. In the United States, most people have credit card or mortgage debt and it is normal. As soon as you pay for these debts monthly, you are fine. Even millionaire people have debts as well. However, most people back home don’t have debt. In fact, they can’t lend money if they are poor. They can’t use credit card or buy a house without fully pay for it. So, make sure you guys, Filipino Americans don’t mention about those debts or you must explain clearly about that.

Don’t listen to what others say about Filipina ladies leaving you after they became a permanent resident of the US. Only a few of them leave their husbands for someone else because of dishonesty from the husbands. I suggest you tell the truth about life in America before you marry her. If you are a cleaner and earn 70,000 pesos a month or you work as a software engineer and make 400,000 a month, then tell her about that. Don’t try to “show off” too much about US lifestyle. When she comes to America, she will find out the truth.

In conclusion, the Filipino American men that local single women in the Philippines like to marry are those who were American born or raised in the US as well as those who just migrated to this country. Of course, they don’t have an option to select. You are a Filipino man who lives in the US, no matter who old you are, you can get married with a beautiful and young Pinay back home.

Why do Filipina women show off their White husbands too much?

Filipina women who marry white husband claim high status in the Philippines. White men are considered as the most stunning and great men in this country. So, single women here are so proud to walk with white guys. They usually show off their white husbands to relatives, friends and even strangers on public.

Filipino women and White men

Filipino women and White men (Photo: youtube)

In the Philippines, having a white husband is the pride for her family and siblings, as well as relatives. It does not matter who old he is, a white spouse is viewed as the special status in the family. Most of Filipino women, their parents and siblings, try to show off this white guy every time they have a chance. When she has a half-white kid, they show off this kid as well. This is the routine that happens to most of Filipino-wife-White-husband families.

It is about the culture and society. The white is always better than dark color. Also, most Filipina ladies are taught to look for a better man than them. They always try to marry up for better. Another reason is that the bad rumors from Filipino men about domestic violence make them scared of marrying a local man. The poor living condition is also the reason they want to look for a white husband. Most of them are trying to get out of the country where they can’t find a bright future. They are trying to marry a white man to have an opportunity to work and earn dollars in the Western nation.

Back to our topic, Filipinos consider white skin is the better. Most of them are trying to change their skin color by using skin whitening products to have a whiter skin. Marrying a white dude is the dream that comes true. Their children will have the best white skin ever. They are proud to be white. When a Filipina married a white husband, he is like her high brand. Of course, she will show off her husband wherever she has a chance. Her parents will show off their grand-children as well. Every one in her family will show off this white dude too.

It is about the culture. The Philippines people show off the good things and hide the ugly things. When a Filipina girl who married to a Caucasian, certainly, he is her pride. She is proud of herself. She thinks her life is on the higher status in the society. When she walks with a white spouse, she feel confident, safe and proud. She is happy with a white, tall and handsome husband. Then, it is okay for her to show off with other people.

Many of single women in the Philippines who signed up at our free dating site to find Western men try to show off their “cool” and “high-level” husbands after marriage. I think it is okay to do so if you are proud of yourself about your husband.

However, there are some Filipina girls who completely changed their characteristics after they married a Caucasian husband, this is not good. They think that they are considered as the high status and living condition. Their behavior has changed. They don’t talk to the neighbors and friends. They think these neighbors and friends are “low” class so they don’t talk or even look at anymore. This isn’t right at all.

Anyway, the Filipina ladies who marry white husbands show off with their friends and even strangers. Especially their mothers always try to show off their son-in-laws in front of people. I mean, they are too proud to have the white dude as a member of the family.

Filipina Ladies & the Illusions of the United States of America

Many Filipina ladies who signed a profile through an online Filipino dating site believe the America is the land of opportunities that they can make easy living. They might have heard either Filipino Americans or Native Americans tell the myths about this country. Being a Pinoy who lives in the US for 25 years, I am writing this article to tell the truth about the USA country, not like what they believe it is.

Filipino ladies n Illusions of life in the US

Filipino ladies n Illusions of life in the US

Americans really work hard to make a living. They are stressful when thinking about bills such as mortgages, utilities, credit card, insurances, and so on. The cost of living in America is like 10 times higher than the Philippines. For example, when you make less than 20,000 pesos a month, it is hard to live in this country, especially in New York and California. The cost of living is high in these US States. One bedroom apartment for rent may cost you 16,000 pesos. If you live by yourself and make 20,000 pesos, then you can’t rent an apartment. American people who are making less money, have to share a room with others from single family houses or town houses. A room for share costs about 7,000 pesos.

What about the earning and income?

When you are hired to cut grass around some people’s houses, the boss can pay you 1,400 pesos a day. So you can make 40,000 pesos a month if you work 30 days. The meal at fast food restaurants like McDonald or Burger King is about 50 pesos. One of the most important thing in America is the health insurance that you must buy. The cost of the hospitalization is extremely expensive. Of course, you get the excellent service in the hospitals in America. So, you must buy medical health insurance. It may cost you another 4,000 pesos a month.

Filipina woman in America

Filipina woman in America

The cost of living in other US states is cheaper, including Texas, Florida, Georgia, and etc.

So, if you make 40,000 pesos in the Philippines, then you should not come to the US, unless you want your children go to school here. The education cost for children from 1st grade to 12th grade is 100% free. You have to pay the lunch for your kids though. The lunch cost is about 33 pesos per meal. If your income meet the standard of low income, then the school will pay for your children too. Some Filipino women don’t understand clearly about life in America so this article may help you thoroughly understand about that.

When you meet an American at a Filipina dating site, you will need to ask him about the cost of living in the US. It is very expensive that what you thought. Don’t think it simply by just judging the way you saw and heard a Filipino American spent money over there. He must work very hard in the US so he can spend money over there. Of course, the US dollars are big in the Philippines. For instance, he makes 50,000 pesos a month in America, after expenses paid, he can save around 20,000 pesos. If he brings about 100,000 pesos and spend in the Philippines, then you may say “woh”, he is rich. In fact, he is not rich at all.

I hope you thoroughly understand about the life in American which is not as easy as you believe. After reading it over, if you still decide to meet a Pinoy or an American to come to the US, then go ahead to create a profile at our free Filipino dating site now. Good luck!

Woh, Filipino men! you guys are gorgeous, so be confident!

Filipino men are the most beautiful and gorgeous men in Asia. They are not the same as Korean, Chinese, Japanese, and Vietnamese etc. They are strong and cute with the perfect skin color of bronze tan and attractive hair. However, the only issue that Western women complain about the Pinoy guys is the lack of confidence when it comes to dating, love and relationship. They take too much time to approach the lady they like after she turns on “green light”.

Filipino men are gorgeous and cute

Filipino men are gorgeous and cute

Filipino men are shy

That’s right. They are shy compared to Western men such as Caucasians and Blacks. These Western men are more friendly and open to the woman even though she is still on “yellow light”. They just approach to talk and joke with any woman they like. In America, Canada and Australia, Pinoy men are judged by the most beautiful and gorgeous Asian men by Western ladies. They look strong and cute.

Why taking so long to approach to a girl when she turns on the green light?

I think it is about the Philippines culture. When it comes to dating, relationship and marriage, most singles take it seriously. They want to investigate the opposite side to make sure they are perfect matched. They want a lifelong commitment. So, they take time to carefully think about that person before they approach. This is one of the best traits about Filipino single men in the Philippines and those who live in the West.

Do you know why you are the most stunning Asian men in the West?

You guys look strong and cute and speak English with American voice. I think many Filipino men hang out with non-Filipino friends including White, Black and Hispanic. This is a good thing. As you know most Asian people usually don’t like to hang out with non-Asian friends. You guys are different. This is another reason that Caucasian women love about Philippines men.

How about Filipino women?

Certainly, Filipino guys don’t have much issues from their own race. I have not heard any complain from Filipina ladies about Pinoy men who live in the West. Only local Filipina girls from the hometown Philippines complain about domestic violence from some men back home. Generally speaking, Filipino guys are good in term of dating and marriage. They take care of their family and children.

No wondering there are thousands of single Filipino men signing up through online dating sites like Filipinodatings.com and others to find Caucasian and Filipina ladies for dating and marriage. Of course, to find a Pinay lady for dating, you sleep through it. However, seeking a Caucasian girl for dating requires more self confidence from you guys. Be confident when you like and approach a single woman. Don’t take too much time. Go for it.

Who Wants Dating & Marrying a Filipino Woman, Read Here

From courting to love to marriage with a Filipino woman is long process that men must be patient to succeed. If you are a man who pursues a dream of dating or marrying a Filipino wife, then please post your comments below. You can have a link to your profile at our online dating site FilipinoDatings.com if you have one. I don’t give too much compliments about them but only the truth.

Why are they falling for foreign men?

Filipino women & foreign men

Filipino women & foreign men (Picture from Tropicalmba)

There are many reasons that they fall for foreign men. Many men thinks that Filipino ladies love foreign men just because of money. This is a myth or it is only applied to some women in the Philippines. A Filipina lady loves her husband more than anything else in the world. Money is just a bonus in love. Even though they work for small money, they don’t consider it as the utmost important thing in choosing her life mate.

What women in the Philippines fall on foreign men is the good personality and characteristics. They want a man who treats his wife with respect and are responsible with his family. There are many good local men in this country too but most of them gather with friends after work for drinking. They are not responsible for family. Foreign men work hard and they get home with their family after work. Just imagine one situation, you are a person who get home right away after work to cook and take care of your kids while your husband hangs out with his friends for drinking and come home by 9 or 10 PM. Most Filipino wives don’t like about this. They want a man who considers his family the utmost important thing in life.

Why do foreign men fall on Philippine women?

Beautiful & sexy

Filipino women are beautiful and sexy even after they have babies. They have unique Asian beauties so no wonder why many men are dreaming them today. There are other Asian women out there but Filipina ladies are chosen the most by men, Asian men and Western men.

Beautiful Filipino girlsBeautiful Filipino girls (Picture from myblueheart)

Extraordinary characteristics

Women in the Philippines consider marriage as the lifelong commitment. They are careful in choosing a life partner. They are happy to serve their counterpart and kids. They also serve their husband’s parents, especially elders. They think that’s their responsibility to do so. They are master of being a wife and mother role. However, don’t think they are a maid, which is touching their self esteem. They are happy to serve you, your children and parents. Filipina girls are family oriented.

Generosity, Tolerance & Gratitude

Sometimes they give too much for others but don’t get back. They just want to help people without expecting to get in return. The tolerance is a great characteristic that helps them to build and maintain a relationship lifelong. There are ups and downs in marriage relationship but Filipino ladies are tolerable for their husbands to keep the marriage going. Plus, their gratitude helps the great part of their foundation in life.

There are other beautiful traits about Filipino women that I wrote from other articles, you can read to learn more about them.

If you are one of single men seeking Filipino women, or ladies in the Philippines finding online men, then post your comments below by writing about your personal information such as location, age, career, height, weight, education, religion, email address, a profile link if you have one at Filipinodatings.com.

Good Reasons For Dating or Marrying a Filipina Lady

What makes a Filipina lady the most wanted girlfriend or wife for Western men is her amazing femininity and charm. Thousands of foreign men prefer to establish a long lasting relationship with a Filipino woman.

Filipino women

Filipino women (Photo: admu.edu)

There are many reasons why Filipino women make excellent girlfriends or wives. Many men are planning to pursue their dream of marrying a single Philippines woman. Every year, there are thousands of Filipina brides come to Western countries. Also, many foreign men married these ladies and choose to live in the Philippines. Generally speaking, Filipina ladies stand out of the crowd among other Asian ladies because they are friendly, charming and appealing.

Marrying a Filipina woman is every man’s dream. Men in the Philippines are lucky that they can date and marry the most beautiful and stunning women on this planet. Filipina women are friendly, polite and submissive. They speak friendly and in low tones. They are faithful in love, relationship and marriage. Foreign men like these traits the most. They like to marry a loyal wife and Filipina lady is the best choice. Filipino ladies are willing to put their family before anything else, even money or career. The Philippines is a developed country so most people don’t make as much money as people from other developed countries, so, they view the strong family bonds as their richness and they take good care of that.

Most of Filipino-Western marriages are successful and considered a lifetime. The divorce rate is rare for such inter-racial marriages even when they come to the West. International men usually want a long lasting marriage and Filipina ladies are the right choice. A Philippines woman is popular for being attentive, caring, friendly and appealing. There are no words to describe how good they are. They can sacrifice their careers to have a good family. They don’t think about themselves but the husband and children. They want to be submissive and they want you, husbands, take a lead of the family.

Filipina ladies with Western husbands

Filipina ladies with Western husbands (Google images)

I am not a Filipino man who tries to give too much compliments on Filipina ladies. That’s absolutely true about them. In summary, below are some good traits about the Philippines girls.

  • Excellent personality – Most of Filipino women seem to be quiet. They speak in low tones so they rarely argue with their husband. They are not stubborn women because they don’t want to quarrel with you. They don’t criticize about your bad sides. They accept you as the husband, who you are.
  • Family as a high priority – Money is the main cause for divorces in Western people. In the United States or Canada, for instance, if you get laid off for long and don’t have money to pay for bills, then your life partner will divorce you. The Philippines is a poor country where people make about $1 per hour on average. However, they don’t consider money as the most important thing in life but they consider the family bond as the priority thing. A Filipina lady values family and her marriage as the most important thing.
  • Beauty and sex – This is the most important factor that international men fall on them. Filipino women are beautiful because of the mixing of the European (Spanish) blood with the Filipino. In terms of sex, each Filipina wife knows how to cheer you up by making you feel like “a new bride” every day.

Filipino Mail Order Brides & Foreign Men: Tips You Must Read

When people mentioned about mail order brides, Filipina comes first. Generally speaking, Filipino mail order brides are too popular in Asian, Europe and American continents. There are good and bad things about them. I am writing this article to provide some tips for both foreign men and Filipina ladies who want know more about such inter-racial relationships and marriages.

Filipino Mail Order Brides & Foreign Men

Filipino Mail Order Brides & Foreign Men

About Filipino mail order brides

There are many American guys selecting Filipino brides for marriage and they don’t know completely about the differences between Filipino women and other Asian women. Filipino women are submissive while other Asian women are not submissive (Japanese, Singaporean, and so on). The reason that the Philippines mail order brides are so popular on the world because of some reasons. When foreign men have had headache conflicts with Western women in the past, they go for Filipino women and they compared the differences. These guys always said “Filipino brides are the best”, based on the way they are treated.

Not all Filipina wives are submissive. In the West, most women usually express themselves whatever they think. In the Philippines, women are judged by the way they talk. Especially when talking to the man, they seem to be quite. Many of them usually hide their true character until the marriage. So, you may not understand them completely during the dating stage.

Most Filipino brides looking for foreign men for marriage online are poor. If you want to marry a Filipina bride, then you may be willing to help her family too. In other words, you are financially responsible for her entire family because they think you are rich. Their family size is huge. They usually have from 5 to 12 siblings. That’s the true about Filipina mail order brides. When you sponsor her to the West, she will work hard to make money and help her parents as well as siblings and relatives.

About foreign men

Not all foreign men are rich. If you are looking for a foreign man for marriage, then you have to think about it. They are not as rich as you think. They work hard in their country to make money. However, it is easy to make money in their country. That’s the point. Foreign men are everywhere, including South Korean, Japanese, Polish, Australian, American, Canadian, French, Italian, and so on. As you see on our free dating site Filipinodatings.com, there are many types of foreign men who signed up with us.

If you want to have a long term relationship that leads to marriage, then you should not ask for their money for now. There are many guys who admitted that they didn’t feel comfortable when his girlfriend or her siblings ask for his money. They are not just used to it yet. This is strange because he has not seen something like that before. If you are acting like a gold-digger, then he may end up not marrying you. He thinks you may not be a good wife for him.

In conclusion, this article briefly listed some tips for both foreign guys and Filipina ladies to understand about each other, so you can come together to make a perfect couple. Every time I see a Filipino-Western couple on the road, I have to admitted that you guys look perfect to me. So, good luck to all Filipino women and foreign men and hope you find each other at our free online dating site.

How can I meet American men who are looking to marry Filipino women?

Getting married with single American men is popular nowadays but how and where to find them is a question here. The Philippines or Asian dating services are the solution to find single men in America.

Filipino girls

Filipino girls

You need to search for them through these web sites and contact them. You can wait for them to contact you, certainly. There are many American men looking to marry Filipina ladies. American men are defined as either naturalized Filipino Americans or native Americans.

There are many Filipino girls who are intelligent, beautiful and educated looking for American husband. If you are one of these, then you should learn how to get a man marry you. American men are not the same as Filipino men as you have seen in the Philippines. They are friendly, loyal and straight. They are looking to marry Filipina lady because they love your beautiful, small, skinny, appealing and sexy body with simple personality and low requirements as a husband.

“Don’t be a golddigger” is the first thing you need to remember if you want a long term marriage. This is the truth. You should not ask for money from him. He can give you money but he may not marry you. If you want to have a short-term relationship, then pay for what you get. The girl that he selects for marriage must be a good person. So, prove to him that you are the best person in his heart.

American men love Filipinas because you guys are appealing, friendly, beautiful, submissive and strong in sex. So, after you know him through an online dating site, chat with him and meet him in the Philippines, you have to make him think you are the best. For those who are still virgin, you must give it to him. Don’t save it for marriage because he won’t marry you if he does not have sex with you. If you are not virgin, then it is easier for you to make love with him. Try to make it the best you can.

Many single men in the United States think that you guys don’t love your man, but you just want to come to this great country when you marry him. They will ask themselves why a Filipina lady will leave her country and marry an unknown man. It is not love but on purpose. You have to prove to him that you love him by heart so he can marry you and bring you to America.

Another important point about the differences between the Philippines and American cultures. Filipino ladies like to work things out rather than find a new relationship at the first sign of trouble. This is your strong point of view so make sure you keep this in mind. American men love about this characteristic about Filipino ladies.

Don’t let him disrespect you by getting involved in money related issues. If you come from financially disadvantaged families that you need money, then you must talk to him clearly about that. You can take him to visit your parents and siblings so he can understand. Let him decide what he can help. But again, don’t be a golddigger in any case.

How can you find an American man who is looking to marry Filipino ladies?

You can go to the Filipino internet dating agencies Filipinodatings.com or other sites to find him. Just sign up for a profile and write as detailed as possible about your profile. You can either search for him and contact him or wait for him to contact you first. You should contact with some men and choose the best one to continue the online dating and go from there.

So, online dating sites are the solution to meet American men who are looking to marry Filipino women.

Are Filipino Women Forced To Seek Husbands From Overseas?

There are many good Filipino men in the Philippines that Filipino women can get married with. The number of men and women in this country is not imbalanced. Why are Filipino women looking for men from overseas? Is money the only thing that they are looking for? If yes, why are there many rich Filipinas who married foreign men and came to the West? Let’s face the truth here, Filipino ladies are forced to seek good men from overseas for marriage.

American men seeking Filipino womenMaterials are involved

There are Filipina ladies who belong to the low socio-economic classes, view Western men as a “king”, because they have money. These Filipinas who make less than $10 a day and spend $9 for the expenses and many of them spend all of what they earn in a day. Western men have money in their bank accounts. Of course, materials are no doubt the things that Filipino women look for in a foreign husband. Some of them are willing to accept an old husband, just because of financial things. I personally don’t blame on them. If you have ever live in a poor family, then you know what you’ll need.

Good reputation

There is a good reputation for themselves, family and friends when they married a Western husband. A Filipina is proud of herself because she married with a man who lives in the first class countries like America, Australia, Canada or UK. So, her relatives and friends are impressed by her too. This is true in the Philippines. When you, a white man, walks on the road, young local women look at you and wait for you approach to them. In other words, they are waiting for you to marry them and bring them to your country.

Afraid of local Filipino men

Filipino men in Philippines

Filipino men in Philippines

Yes. Many of Filipinas are scared of marring a local Filipino man. Generally speaking, many single men in the Philippines are unappealing at all because the way they act and treat the woman. You can see almost all young and old Filipino guys just drink and hang around with friends, instead of work hard to take care of the family. They let their wife take care of finances and the house too. As seen on CNN, Filipino men are the most narcissistic in Asia. When they get drunk, their wife don’t dare to say a word. They will beat their wife if she dares to speak words that upset them. That happens daily in the Philippines.

So, not only low socio-economy Filipinas but also middle or high-level class Filipinas look for a husband from overseas. Every year, there are thousands of Filipino women who come to the West by sponsoring from their husbands. Also, there are many of these Western men who got married with local Filipinas and build a life in this country. Generally speaking, most of single Filipino women are forced to looking for real men from overseas.