Filipino Wives mail order brides are increasingly popular in the last few years. There are thousands of Philippines wives who got married with Filipino men in the United States of America (USA) every year. My name is Bryant. I am a Filipino American man who lives in California USA. I am telling you a true story about myself and how I got married with a Filipina wife in Philippine 8 years ago. This is based on my own experience. By that time, no one recommended me to get married with her and sponsor her over to USA. However, I did and I think I made a right decision.
Philippines wife is great, supportive, and life long. I got acquainted with a Filipino girl from an online dating service. We chatted and talked on the phone for about one year. I decided to go back to Philippines to see her and marry her if she was my type. My family, relatives and friends didn’t support me for doing this. I still remember what some of my friends said, “come on, Bryant, don’t do this. She will leave you for someone else once she became a US citizen.” I was so sad when I heard such rumors. Anyway, I went there to see her.
She met me at the Ninoy Aquino (Manila) International Airport. I felt in love with her at that moment. In front of me was a beautiful Filipino girl who was 24 years old. She was about 5’5 tall and 95 lbs. She was appealing and lovely. I greeted her and chatted with her a little bit. Then, she took me to her home to meet her parents and siblings. She drove me on her motorcycle every morning and afternoon to look at the romantic Manila city. Let me talk a little bit about her. She was attending a University in Manila for a Economic degree. She also tutored some kids to get money to cover her tuition. Her personal character is great. She is an excellent cooker and a perfect homemaker.
Philippines wives get married for life. To tell you the truth, the divorce is against the Philippines’s law. As you know that Filipinos are influenced by the strong Christian religion of the old Spanish time. Some relationships got broke up when the couples are not happy. However, the Philippine wife stays single to the rest of her life. Usually, they are separated. It is just too hard to get divorced in this country. Marriage is considered the life time commitment so they don’t think about getting a divorce after marriage. Most of Filipina wives usually stay at home to take care of their husbands and children after marriage. They are very supportive and patient. Most of them are great homemakers. Especially, they usually stay in shape even many of them have two or three kids.
Back to my story. I stayed there for three weeks. I came back to the US and continue working on my bachelor degree in CIS (computer information system). I graduated one year after that. I went back to Philippines and got married with her. Of course, my family, relatives and friends still gave me different looks. Anyway, I made my own decision but still nervous to do so because of many negative looks from my family and friends. She came to USA after 9 months.
After my Filipino wife came to this country. I taught her new things in the USA like how to drive a car and where to find a job. She was attending a community college while working on a part time job to help me. I don’t need her to do that but she just wants to help. She then transferred to a local University and finished her Bachelor degree in CIS two years ago. She now works in an IT (Information Technology) company. We had two kids now. Now, I must say that I made a right decision. I got a beautiful wife and a happy family.
From my own experience, I can say that it is worth it to find a long-term relationship online. Don’t listen to what people say, but listen to your heart. Do what your heart wants you to do. Here are some tips I can recommend for you guys:
- Don’t get married with a Filipina wife who is too young (example: it is not good to get married with a girl who is younger than you 20 or 30 years old.
- If you are 5’5, then don’t find a Philippines girl who is 5’6 tall.
- Don’t get married with a Filipino model if you are not very “cool”.
- Don’t rush into marriage, you need time to make a wise decision.
That is my love story of getting married with a Filipino Wife. Please give me some ideas and comments below. Thanks!